Truth: I have been in a depression for the past 2 ½ years.
But here's another Truth: The Lord has delivered me from it.
I'm not going to go into what is the cause of depression.
Some say it's the results of rejecting God, or the presence of hidden sin in
your life. Some say it's just a chemical imbalance. I'm not in a position to
give a statement on that right now. All I know is that the past few years have
been dark, despairing years for me.
At times I wasn't aware of the darkness in my soul, but other
times it was so thick and oppressive that I yearned for death's finality to end
it all. On the outside, most people would never have suspected what was going
on inside of me. I usually wear my heart on my sleeve, but in this area, I was
loth to admit that I was struggling with depression. So I hid it, smiling and
laughing like I always do, sometimes convincing even myself that everything was
fine and life was as it should be. It eventually just became part of me.
But I never got used to it. I can't forget the nights not
that long ago when I felt like there were demons riding on my back, riding me
to the end of my strength. The absence of all hope is truly life draining. As I
looked ahead towards the future, it seemed endlessly bleak and I dreaded having
to live my life.
This darkness entered my soul right on the heals of a second
relationship's end. It was a relationship I had clung to, to the point where I
resisted God with all my strength when I would hear that voice telling me it
was not His will. When I finally ended it, it didn't end well. The pain I felt
as circumstances were navigated around me to purposefully cause pain for what I
had done was a pain I could not stand underneath. With that pain, though, there
was anger towards God, anger towards men, anger towards my church. Along with
the anger and bitterness festering in my heart, there was also genuine
confusion in regards to my actual faith. At the time I attended a church who's
doctrine I did not and do no share. Over the half decade of going to this
church, my strength in belief had crumbled under the pressure of a doctrine
that showed me an unjust, unloving and tyrannical God, instead of the merciful,
loving, and compassionate God I fell in love with on the day of my salvation.
When I needed God the most, I felt like I didn't even know who He really was
anymore. The God of comfort and healing, the gentle loving God I'd known - I
just couldn't find Him amidst the doctrine I'd been hearing over and over.
The roots of my faith had been pulled out. The legs had been
broken from the table. In the turmoil of my own anger, my own pain, my own
resistance of God, and this shattering of the One Constant in my life that
despite my rebellion I KNEW was my only hope, I fell headlong. I felt no rock,
no foundation, no life-line thrown to me, no buoy's of hope. I foundered.
But by the grace of God, I never quite gave up. I fought for
my faith. I wrestled with the demons hounding me. I cried out in anguish for
deliverance to the God I'd believed in all my life. Even when I only seemed to
hear the silence of the unjust God, I still cried out to the loving God I'd
known and stubbornly believed to somehow be out there, despite it all. Even after
the pain of the break-up had long past healed and I had moved on, the
permeating, oppressive darkness remained.
It was a long 2 ½ years. Three months ago I would have told
you, if I'd been ready to admit to my depression, that I was truly about at the
end. There finally reached the point in the very near past where I finally
admitted to myself that I couldn't go on in this. Either it had to end...or I
had to end. In that moment, you might imagine God to have swept in and
championed me out of the darkness, but even after that pivotal moment of
admittance, it was not for several more weeks that the deliverance was wrought.
It didn't come with earthquakes or thunder. There was no jolt
of freedom, no bells and whistles. I almost missed seeing it. But suddenly
it was there. The Lord used two things.
The first was
Life Action Ministries. During my senior year
of high school up until I was 22, I was heavily involved in this ministry,
whether through volunteering at their summer camp in Michigan or being a team
member for 2 years on one of their traveling ministry teams. Life Action is a
ministry all about true revival. Not tent revival, but deep heart and mind
revival. It was this ministry that first awakened my soul to Christ. I was
saved when I was very young, manifested and proven in my life by the working of
the Holy Spirit in me even when I was young. But my soul and spirit came
alive
to the
relationship with Christ when I was 17 years old and working
as a summer volunteer at the camp.
The Lord sent Life Action out here to a church near me right during this pivotal time of despair. For those
unfamiliar with the ministry of Life Action, one of their road teams will come
and hold a conference at a church for anywhere from 4 days to 2 weeks. Nine
weeks prior to that event, they will send out a representative to introduce the
ministry to the church and to prepare the church for what would be coming.
It was during this pre-summit that the Lord kicked in the
door of my depression. He then invaded my very being with His Presence and
Truth through the Beth Moore “Breaking Free” bible study that I was privileged
to attend right on the heals of that first Sunday morning.
The minute details of my deliverance and my restoration to
full faith will have to be a collection of smaller posts for another time.
Suffice to say, I have been sent free to such an extent that the very sun
outside my window looks brighter and the leaves seem greener. And I'm not
saying that to sound poetical. There was a moment in the past few weeks where I
looked up from where I was kneeling on the ground in prayer, and it was like a
darkly tinted shade had been literally taken off of my eyes and the physical
world around me looked different. That's how real God is.
I am once again confident in who God is. I know He is kind,
loving, gentle, compassionate, as well as serious about the severity of sin.
I've had a lot to confess to, believe me! But I know whom I have believed in
and that He is able. I am once again confident in who I am in Christ. The old
is gone and the new has come. He brought me up out of a pit, out of the miry
clay and He has set my feet upon the Rock.
“For thus says the Lord, 'Just as I have brought all this
great disaster upon this people,
so I will bring upon them all the good that I
promised them...
for I will restore the fortunes of the land as at first, says
the Lord.'”
Jeremiah 32:43, 33:11
When you pass through the waters, I will be with you,
and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you;
When you walk through fire you shall not be burned,
and the flame shall not consume you.
For I am the Lord your God, the Holy One of Israel, Your
Savior.
Isaiah 43:2,3
